Since the founding of the State of Israel, more than 3,000 Jewish girls have converted to Islam and married Arab men via the Muslim courts, Shtigletz says. Additionally, some 2-3,000 women are married to their Arab counterparts by common-law marriage, while another 10-20,000 girls are dating Arabs at any given time.
When Israeli Women Marry Arab Men: Third in a Series/ INN
Esther, for example, escaped from her Arab husband two months ago. An immigrant from the former Soviet Union, she met her Arab husband of seven years while working in a factory just one year after moving to Israel. She says while they were dating he treated her like a queen, and despite the warnings from her parents and friends she saw nothing wrong in their relationship. But it was all a guise…
The beatings, abuse and humiliation she was forced to undergo are
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“I once was told about a girl from Ramat HaSharon who was dating an Arab boy and considering marriage,” says Shtigletz. “Her family had tried to convince her to break it off, but nothing would work. I went to visit her, we spoke, but she seemed distant. Suddenly G-d sent me the idea that I should call an Arab woman to prove my point…
“I asked the Jewish girl where her boyfriend was from, and she said Taibe. I opened the Taibe phonebook and called a number at random… A woman answered. I told her that I was Jewish and that I wanted to ask her a few questions. She agreed. I asked her how old she was and she answered 25. I asked her how many kids she had, she said six… I told her, ‘I have my sister on the other line. She is listening to us. She is thinking of marrying her Arab boyfriend. Tell me: should she do this?’
“The woman said, ‘Do not let her make this mistake. No way!’”
Shtigletz asked her why she so strongly opposed the match, and the woman responded with a question: “‘What, she would like to be beaten?’”
Playing the devil’s advocate, Shtigletz replied, “Are there no decent Arabs?” She said no.
“‘All Arabs hit! All Arabs hit! They don’t always call what they are doing beating their wives. They say they are just giving us a spanking. But what is a spanking for? Because the coffee wasn’t hot enough, or I didn’t put in enough sugar, or his friend made him angry – this or that, it’s all worth a spanking.’”
The young woman heard her Arab counterpart and promptly broke off her engagement. Lev L’Achim helped her to find a new group of friends, and later a Jewish spouse.
Other testimonials:
“I was married to an Arab man for 12 years, and every day I plotted how to escape. I wanted to leave, but I was scared to leave. I was afraid of what he would do to me or to my children if we left him. I lived in fear all of my married life.”
Are Arab women who intermarry in a similar situation? Dr. Nasser says as of 1991, only 18 Arab women had married Jewish men since the founding of the State. “Why? Because she will be hunted down and killed by her family. The family would rather have her dead than married to a Jew.”
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Sheik Yer’ Mami cares more about muslim women than thier menfolk do. This posting has let me speechless, but I am sending good vibes across and out to those ladies.
Some people are just kinky. There will always be people with a fetish, take the scat girls for an instance, definitely not my idea of fun but I had to put this thread into perspective.
Spanking as fetish may have its place, Infidel, between two consenting adults. But not in my name; in fact it’s not to be recommended any more than marrying an Arab. Both are physically painful. But don’t let me stop you enjoying your s*x life your way!
Your too kind one love, I did not realise that it was you behind the mirror!
i dont know about all of that, i am half arab and half native american and i believe that culture and traditions play roles in all things, and the way a person is brought up from childhood, not all arabic men are this way, the men these women were with were obviously raised a specific way to “spank”-hit a woman when he is not pleased, what might not be right to us might be to them, because they are raised that way…
again i am half arabic and i do not hit women, because i was raised around women 3 sisters and a single mom that for a time was abused not by an arab but by a mexican man-but i am not biased to noone, the mexican man also had a very rough life and was raised wrong, so don’t say it’s all arab men until you’ve dated a good man like me-there are good men out there-by the way-next time listen to your family-whether the next man is egyptian, british, or half arabic-if he seems fishy, your family will fish him OUT!!!
You teach people how to treat you. If you are thinking of marrying a man who is a different religion or from a different ethnic background you have to do your homework. Lust wears off & love can die if you’re in a miserable relationship with someone who doesn’t share your religion or values. Marriage is @ a high failure rate if you are socially, religious,
ethnic compatible. I think the bible said it best ” Don’t be unequally yoked” i.e. if you lay down with a dog you probably will get fleas !!!!
Shit talk about miserable. Life is too short. Marry for ALL the right reasons. Talk is cheap. men will try to.` sell you the Brooklyn bridge for their desires….If you’re not feeling it, no matter how good lookin, or great in the sack he’s probably a drive by. Men are like buses 1 goes by every 15 minutes. Be selective… I’ve been married for 22 yrs to an Italian from NJ. I’m a separdic jew from CT. We met in Ca. So far so good. He’s also 17 yrs older. He’s the polar opposite, Quiet & patient, where I am “in your face” NY like jew I’m working on being less psycho but no luck so far. opposites do attract. We are still raising our child &
seem o be well matched. Go figure !!
I JUST LOVE IT .
I NEVER HAD A DATE WITH A JEWISH GIRL THEY ALL ARE TOO INTO I DONT KNOW WHAT.
SO THESE WOMEN WANTED SOME THING SECIAL , DIFFERENT, STRANGE..
THESE WOMEN THOUGHT THEY COULD TAME A SAVAGE INTO BEING THERE PARTNER???.
I WISH THEM THE WORST THEY CAN HAVE.
SO MANY NIGHT I AM ALONE AND SINGLE AND THESE IDOTS HAND NO TASTE FOR ME , BUT WANTED THIS CRAP ..
ITS A THIRD PARTY PLEASURE TO READ ABOUT THESE OUTCOMES..
How can i meet with arab man? i want to marry with imam of kaba
im muslim &turkish girl they are so attractive for me.
The wives of leading Israeli rabbis have called on Jewish women to avoid marrying Arab men
How its done; the tricks of the Arabs (from CNN)
A letter from about 30 prominent rabbis’ wives was causing a stir in Israel Wednesday because it urges Israeli girls not to date Arabs.
The open letter comes three weeks after the uproar caused by another letter, which was written by 50 state-appointed rabbis and told Jews not to rent or sell property to non-Jews.
The latest missive, which was published by some websites and news outlets, says Arab men act polite around Jewish girls and “act as if they really care about you,” but it says that’s a ruse. The men, it says, even change their Arab names to Hebrew forms like Yossi and Ami in order to get close to the girls.
“This behavior is temporary,” the letter says. “As soon as you are in their hands, in their villages under their control, everything becomes different. You can ask dozens of girls who have been there. They will tell you it is all an act.
“As soon as you arrive at the village, your life will never be the same. The attention will be replaced with curses, beatings, and humiliations. Even if you want to leave the village it will be much harder. They won’t let you, they will chase you, they won’t let you come back.”
It urges Jewish girls not to go out with non-Jews or work in places that employ non-Jews.
“Your grandmothers never dreamt that their descendants would do something that will take the next generations of her family out of the Jewish people,” it says.
The letter was initiated by the head of Lehava, an extreme right-wing group that says it aims to prevent the “assimilation of the Jewish people” and works at “saving Jewish girls from Arab villages.”
“It’s known that girls who go out with Arabs are beaten, these girls are in danger. … There is a violent social trend and everyone ignores it,” said the head of the group, Anat Gopstein, in a radio interview Wednesday morning.
The head of Israel’s Reform movement, Rabbi Gilad Kariv, harshly condemned the letter and said, “Israeli society is falling into a deep, dark pit of racism and xenophobia,” according to spokeswoman Yuli Goren.
More than 30 female rabbis from the Reform movement published a counter-letter harshly condemning the one released Wednesday, Goren said. Kariv also called on Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu and Justice Minister Yaacov Neeman to speak out against it.
Personal experience: Arabs do behave like this, and once you cannot escape from their evil clutches you become a slave. Be extremely wary of arab muslims if you value your freedom!! This is not meant lightly!!