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		<title>Child marriage, child abuse and muta&#8217;a, (temporary marriage)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[INDONESIAN prosecutors have demanded a wealthy Muslim cleric who took a 12-year-old girl as his unofficial wife be convicted of sexually abusing a child and given six years in prison. (Thanks to Islamization Watch) Bonus: Husbands are allowed to beat their wives and children &#8211; as long as they don’t leave any physical marks, an [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><strong>INDONESIAN prosecutors have demanded a wealthy Muslim cleric who took a 12-year-old girl as his unofficial wife be convicted of sexually abusing a child and given six years in prison.</strong> <span style="color: #800000;"><a href="http://islamizationwatch.blogspot.com/2010/10/indonesia-jail-call-for-muslim-cleric.html">(Thanks to Islamization Watch)</a></span></p>
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<li><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">Bonus: Husbands are allowed to beat their wives and children &#8211; as long as they don’t leave any physical marks, an Islamic court in the United Arab Emirates has ruled.</span> <a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1321504/UAEs-highest-court-rules-men-beat-wives-long-leave-marks.html">(Daily Mail)</a></span></strong></li>
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<p><a href="http://sheikyermami.com/wp-content/uploads/Syech-Puji-dan-istri-keduanya-yang-masih-bocah-Lufiana-Ulfa.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-62719" title="Syech-Puji-dan-istri-keduanya-yang-masih-bocah-Lufiana-Ulfa" src="http://sheikyermami.com/wp-content/uploads/Syech-Puji-dan-istri-keduanya-yang-masih-bocah-Lufiana-Ulfa.jpg" alt="" width="404" height="327" /></a>This is the man&#8217;s second wife ~ he ran an Islamic school and picked one of the kids from it for his &#8216;wife&#8217;. But the Indonesian court did not buy his &#8216;Muhammad did it&#8217; line and put an end to his child molesting days.</p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">Pujiono Cahyo Widiyanto, 45, from the Central Java city of Semarang, sparked nationwide controversy over his decision to marry poor village girl Lutfiana Ulfa. </span><span style="color: #800000;">&#8220;We recommend six years prison for him. He has been proven legally as being sexually abusive towards women, especially towards this underage person,&#8221; prosecutor Suningsih, who goes by one name, said. </span><span style="color: #800000;">&#8220;As the owner of a religious school he doesn&#8217;t set a good example,&#8221; she said.</span></p></blockquote>
<p>Widiyanto, also known as Sheikh Puji, married Ulfa in August 2008.  <strong>Indonesian law has harsh penalties for paedophilia, but unregistered and therefore unofficial marriages between older men and under-age girls are common in rural areas. </strong><strong><a href="http://www.adelaidenow.com.au/news/world/jail-call-for-man-who-married-girl-12/story-e6frea8l-1225941971824?from=public_rss">AFP</a><em><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> (In other words: in Aceh its sharia law and nobody does a thing about it)</span></span></em></strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"><strong><a href="http://atlasshrugs2000.typepad.com/atlas_shrugs/2010/10/video-sexually-molesting-young-boys-in-islam.html">VIDEO: Sexually Molesting Young Boys in Islam</a></strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">Atlas Shrugs</span></span></p>
<p><a href="http://www.muhammadtube.com/videos/4683/pedophile-caught-touching-boy-in-mosque" target="_blank"><strong>Video:</strong></a><strong> <span style="color: #800000;">Imam caught sexually groping boy in mosque during prayers back in August.</span></strong></p>
<blockquote><p>The video is <a href="http://www.rediff.com/news/1999/may/14us6.htm" target="_blank">not related</a> to the story below, though it <a href="http://www.yursil.com/blog/2008/07/long-island-ny-imam-accused-of-sexually-abusing-13-year-old/" target="_blank">appears</a> to be <a href="http://tundratabloid.blogspot.com/2009/05/us-imam-rapes-boy-in-florida-mosque.html" target="_blank">systemic</a>, <a href="http://atlasshrugs2000.typepad.com/atlas_shrugs/2010/04/the-dancing-boys-of-afghanistan.html" target="_self">Afghanistan&#8217;s dancing boys</a> notwithstanding. These accused devout Muslims teach &#8220;Islamic lessons&#8221; at the centre.<br />
It is a brutal story involving 12 children, and includes allegations that dogs were allegedly set upon victims.<br />
The accused were arrested, charged, and ordered to hand in their passports, and are now out on bail.</p>
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<li><a href="http://www.news24.com/SouthAfrica/News/Turkish-missionaries-molest-boys-20101020" target="_blank">Turkish missionaries &#8216;molest&#8217; boys</a> News 24</li>
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<h3><a href="http://www.jihadwatch.org/2010/10/abuse-of-temporary-marriage-flourishes-in-iraq.html"><strong>Abuse of temporary marriage flourishes in Iraq</strong></a></h3>
<p>Temporary marriage is one way in which sexual immorality is cloaked with respectability in the Islamic world by those who scoff at the West&#8217;s alleged immorality. Even the ridiculously anti-free speech, politically correct and thoroughly compromised NPR was able to run this story, so the abuse must be widespread. &#8220;Abuse Of Temporary Marriages Flourishes In Iraq.&#8221; by Kelly McEvers for <a href="http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=130350678" target="_blank">NPR</a>, October 19:</p>
<blockquote><p>The practice of temporary marriage has long been common in Shiite Muslim communities, especially in Iran. The idea is that rather than having an affair, a man who wants to be sexually involved with a woman should marry her &#8212; for a few months, or even, hours &#8212; so the relationship will be legitimate.</p></blockquote>
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<blockquote><p>In Iraq, the practice was banned under Saddam Hussein but then flourished after the American invasion. Now, though, some men are using the system to take advantage of poor women, and many of Iraq&#8217;s Shiites say the very religious institutions that sanction such marriages are to blame.</p>
<p>One mother of three, who is so ashamed about what happened to her she doesn&#8217;t want to give her name, says her husband abandoned her when she found out he preferred men. She had no way to support the family.</p>
<p>A religious figure in her neighborhood promised to help. He brought her to his home, locked the door and had sex with her. He offered her $15.</p>
<p>For the man at least, it was a brief moment of muta&#8217;a, the Arabic word for pleasure &#8212; and the Arabic word for temporary marriage.</p>
<p>The woman says the man who had sex with her worked with leading Shiite religious clerics in the Iraqi city of Najaf. It&#8217;s one of the most revered places in Shiite Islam&#8230;.</p>
<p>Nagham Kadhim runs a women&#8217;s rights group in Najaf. She says muta&#8217;a marriage is a sensitive subject in the holy city. But she says abuse of the practice is common. &#8220;The muta&#8217;a marriage happens when there is an economic factor, like when the woman is poor and [does] not have money,&#8221; she says through an interpreter. &#8220;And the religious institution would offer her those job opportunities, through working for a kindergarten, looking after children. And then she would receive like 100,000 dinars.&#8221;</p>
<p>That&#8217;s about a $100 a month. Once the women get the job, Kadhim says the institution will host seminars about temporary marriage to convince them the practice is acceptable.</p>
<p>The &#8216;Right Way&#8217; To Do A Muta&#8217;a Marriage</p>
<p>Aqil al Shammari is a religious scholar who works with a handful of leading figures in Iraq&#8217;s Shiite community. He explains that muta&#8217;a marriage goes all the way back to the Prophet Muhammad, who once told his traveling companions they could purchase a wife with a handful of dates if they were away from their regular wives.</p>
<p>Shammari says he has temporarily married at least five women, while traveling. Each time, he says, he paid them. He made sure they used birth control. He kept his agreement to be married for only a month. And he didn&#8217;t do anything to sully their reputations afterward&#8230;.</p></blockquote>
<p>And there you have it: voila, no immorality, and he and others like him can maintain their posture of moral superiority over the West.</p>
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		<title>The Price of Meat</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 08:48:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Pricelist for Muta&#8217;a, Temporary Marriage in Islamic Iran Planet Iran Exclusive: Iranian regime’s sanctioned brothels at Imam Reza’s shrine in Mash’had H/T Weasel Zippers The following is a direct translation of the below Persian document: Bismellah al rahman a rahim Temporary Marriage (Marriage is among the traditions of the Prophet Mohammad) In order to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><strong><span style="color: #008000;">The Pricelist for Muta&#8217;a, Temporary Marriage in Islamic Iran</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><a href="http://planet-iran.com/index.php/news/19414">Planet Iran Exclusive</a>: Iranian regime’s sanctioned brothels at Imam Reza’s shrine in Mash’had</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;">H/T Weasel Zippers</span></p>
<p><em>The following is a direct translation of the below Persian document:</em></p>
<p>Bismellah al rahman a rahim</p>
<p>Temporary Marriage (Marriage is among the traditions of the Prophet Mohammad)</p>
<p>In order to elevate the spiritual atmosphere, create proper psychological conditions and tranquility of mind, the Province of the Quds’eh-Razavi of Khorassan has created centers for temporary marriage (just next door to the shrine) for those brothers who are on pilgrimage to the shrine of  our eighth Imam, Imam Reza, and who are far away from their spouses.</p>
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<p>To that end, we call on all our sisters who are virgins, who are between the ages of 12 and 35 to cooperate with us. Each of our sisters who signs up will be bound by a two year contract with the province of the Quds’eh-Razavi of Khorassan and will be required to spend at least 25 days of each month temporarily married to those brothers who are on pilgrimage. The period of the contract will be considered as a part of the employment experience of the applicant. The period of each temporary marriage can be anywhere between 5 hours to 10 days. The prices are as follows:</p>
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<li>5 hour temporary marriage – 50,000 Tomans ($50 US)</li>
<li>One day temporary marriage – 75,000 Tomans ($75 US)</li>
<li>Two day temporary marriage – 100,000 Tomans ($100 US)</li>
<li>Three day temporary marriage – 150,000 Tomans ($150 US)</li>
<li>Between 4 and 10 day temporary marriage – 300,000 Tomans ($300 US)</li>
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<p>Our sisters who are virgins will receive a bonus of 100,000 Tomans ($100 US) for the removal of their hymen .</p>
<p>After the expiration of the two year contract, should our sisters still be under 35 years of age and should they be so inclined, they can be added to the waiting list of those who are seeking long-term temporary marriage. The employed sisters are obligated to donate 5% of their earnings to the Shrine of Imam Reza. We ask that all the sisters who are interested in applying, to furnish two full-length photographs (fully hijabed and properly veiled), their academic diplomas, proof of their virginity and a certificate of good physical and psychological health which they can obtain through the health and human services of the township of their residence. Please forward all compiled material and send to the below address by the 31st of the month of Ordibehesht, 1389 (May 21st, 2010).</p>
<p>Attention: For sisters who are below 14 years of age, a written consent from their fathers or male guardian is required.</p>
<p>Address: Mash’had, Shrine of Imam Reza, Shaheed Navab-Safavi, Kossar passage, Bureau of Temporary Marriages</p>
<p>or call Haji Mahmood Momtaz : 98/511/222-5790</p>
<p>For further information, please refer to the<strong> <a href="http://www.aqrazavi.org/index.htm">Quds’eh Razavi website</a>.</strong></p>
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		<title>&#8220;Temporary Marriage&#8221; Fartwas &amp; the Muselmanic Obsession With Sex</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 04:21:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Saudi Sheik&#8217;s Obsession with Sex Fatwas (from London Progressive Journal) Its cool to deceive Western women and to lie to them in order to obtain sex &#38; favors Update: Indian official urges investigation of &#8220;love jihad&#8221; plan to recruit girls for jihad activities Around 5,000 girls have gone missing in the Indian state of Kerala, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><a href="http://londonprogressivejournal.com/article/735/article/735/saudi-sheik's-obsession-with-sex-fatwas">Saudi Sheik&#8217;s Obsession with Sex Fatwas</a> (from <a href="http://londonprogressivejournal.com/article/735/saudi-sheik's-obsession-with-sex-fatwas">London Progressive Journal</a>)</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Its cool to deceive Western women and to lie to them in order to obtain sex &amp; favors</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Update:</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;"> </span></strong><a href="http://www.jihadwatch.org/2010/07/indian-official-urges-investigation-of-love-jihad-plan-to-recruit-girls-for-jihad-activities.html"><strong>Indian official urges investigation of &#8220;love jihad&#8221; plan to recruit girls for jihad activities</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p>Around 5,000 girls have gone missing in the Indian state of Kerala, and Pakistan&#8217;s nefarious governmental jihad arm, the ISI, appears to be involved. Yet the Kerala police remains silent. &#8220;Love jihad cases: Mahila Morcha for NIA probe,&#8221; from the <a href="http://expressbuzz.com/cities/thiruvananthapuram/love-jihad-cases-mahila-morcha-for-nia-probe/192716.html" target="_blank">Express News Service</a>, via <a href="http://www.jihadwatch.org/2010/07/indian-official-urges-investigation-of-love-jihad-plan-to-recruit-girls-for-jihad-activities.html">JW:<strong>&#8220;love jihad&#8221;</strong></a></p></blockquote>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><a href="http://sheikyermami.com/wp-content/uploads/685.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-56687" title="685" src="http://sheikyermami.com/wp-content/uploads/685.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="166" /></a></span></strong></p>
<p>Women Saudi bloggers reflect the frustration of battling against an extremist male ideology that oppresses women by manipulating and twisting religious rhetoric to facilitate them in every possible way to serve men’s’ pleasures.</p>
<p>They deplore men’s obsession with polygamy and other sex-focussed debates (Mahmood’s Den, 2010). On December 11, 2009, Saudi journalist Nadine Al-Budair, a presenter on the Arabic-language American TV channel Al-Hurra, published a satirical article titled &#8220;Me and My Four Husbands&#8221; in the independent Egyptian daily Al-Masri Al-Yawm, where she wondered why a Muslim man can marry up to four wives, while a Muslim woman could not do the same. Al-Budair made her point in similar statements during an interview with the Saudi owned liberal website Elaph based in London a year earlier, in which she argued a woman needs four husbands more than a man needs four wives (Free Muslims, 2010) creating an uproar on the cybersphere, where she was condemned by both genders and especially by members of the religious establishment.</p>
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<li>Just for fun:<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCU2PqSq1co"> Terrorist in Love</a></li>
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<p>Sheik &#8216;Abdallah Al-Muni&#8217;, a member of the Saudi Senior Clerics Council, called to put her on trial ‘for making statements in contradiction to the Quran and the Sunna. In an interview with the Saudi daily ‘Sabq’, Al-Muni&#8217; stated that Al-Budair was &#8220;a sinner who diverted [others] from the straight path,&#8221; and that the Muslim nation completely opposed her views. This was the only time a Saudi woman had to resort to this kind of media provocation to attract attention to the misery of many Saudi women suffering the consequences of polygamy, but there are hundreds of articles by Saudi men and fatwas by Saudi Sheiks that cater for men’s’ pleasures that have not meet such a strong backlash.</p>
<p>Saudi Sheiks produced a number of fatwas allowing men to enjoy different types of sexual relationships ‘marriages’ seen by the majority of women as allowing men to take advantage of women by denying them the rights of married women according to Islamic Sharea’h.</p>
<p>Some of the fatwas condemned seem more kin to a form of legal prostitution, but what is highly alarming is the fact that when some ‘religious’ forums discuss such fatwas to inform people of how wrong they are, they leave a big warnings in bold red font stating that women should not access the forum for the educational content is obscene. However, they do not add a similar warning for children, thus treating children with more respect than adult women (sunniforum, 2010) which reflects a mentality of retarded guardianship that does not consider women as equals even in their right of knowledge.</p>
<p>Different kinds of ‘marriages’ are discussed and promoted on Saudi cyber sphere, such as ‘Mut&#8217;a’ marriage which translates &#8220;pleasure&#8221;, permitted by Shi&#8217;ites which is a contract between a man and a woman for a limited period of time, and divorce is not needed to end it (Al Sajed, 2003). The second kind ‘Urfa marriage translates as &#8220;custom marriage&#8221;, is an arrangement that does not require an official contract and grants women no rights (Ayman, 2010).</p>
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<li>Here&#8217;s <a href="http://www.theamericanmuslim.org/tam.php/features/articles/yusuf_al_qaradawis_approach_to_shia_sunni_dialogue/">sheik Yusuf al Qaradawi&#8217;s fartwa on temporary marriages</a></li>
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<p>The third is ‘Misyaf’ or tourism marriage practiced among rich Saudi men who go on summer vacation to other countries, especially to Yemen where they take advantage of poor families by marrying local young girls for a short period of time – a fortnight to two months – without the brides being aware of the time limitation arrangements (Yamani, 2008) after the holiday is over, the groom disappears in thin air leaving behind a broken hearted young girl who does not know what has happened. The fourth kind is ‘Misyar’ marriage in which the woman relinquishes some of the rights that Islam grants her, such as the right to a home and to financial support from her husband, and, if the man has other wives, the woman loses her right to an equal share of his time and attention (Jabarti, 2005).</p>
<p>The fifth kind of marriage is the ‘Friend’ marriage, where the girl remains at her family&#8217;s home, and she and the man do not maintain a shared household but meet whenever and wherever he wants. The sixth type of marriage is a marriage described as ‘aimed primarily at meeting the needs of young Muslims in the West’, where men wish to have a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship as is customary in Western society, but with alleged religious legitimacy (MEMRI, 2006). Usually those men never tell their wives that they plan to leave them as soon as they finish their education or business trip, when in fact they are using them physically, emotionally and sometimes financially since they save them the trouble of finding accommodation or facing the financial burdens on their own. This fatwa has been approved by Saudi Sheiks and available online by religious figures’ websites like Bin Baz (binbaz, 41/5).</p>
<p>Related Links from the RoP:</p>
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<li><a href="http://www.jpost.com/International/Article.aspx?id=182543">Saudis Use Technology to Keep Women from Escaping&#8230;</a></li>
<li><a href="http://arabnews.com/lifestyle/sidelights/article89606.ece">Saudi Wedding Invitations: Women Not Allowed&#8230;</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2010/jul/25/female-circumcision-children-british-law">British Law Not Enough to Prevent Genital Mutilation Horror&#8230;</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.realcourage.org/2010/07/jordan-honor-killing/">Rape Victim Machine-Gunned by Uncle to Preserve Family Honor</a></li>
</ul>
<p>These trends of ‘marriages’ are an unethical escape by men from their duties towards women, and since such relationships are not welcomed by Muslims at large, this meant that all the arrangements are made discretely where women will have no evidence to pursue men legally (al-Haidari, 2010). This reality of men’s ventures after pleasure led to creating hundreds of dating websites that came with revolutionary ways of interaction between total strangers in a totally segregated society where women have little experience and can be easily tricked, leading to hundreds of articles by individuals who experienced problems as a result of trusting strangers online including scammers (stop scammers.com). Sex related discussions in Saudi Arabia on the Internet is an obsession, which meant more filtering of websites and more finding ways of coding to interact with each others, and more blackmail incidents since a simple innocent passport photo can become an issue of honour.</p>
<p>While Saudi male sphere is preoccupied by fatwas that give them more access to sex and facilitate temporary relationship under the banner of Islam, women’s online sphere is preoccupied with discussions about finding solutions for unfair relationships that abuse women’s rights, and discussions about finding ways to be able to file complaints without having to be accompanied by the guardians which is considered a law requirement in Saudi Arabia. In many incidents the abusers of women’ rights happen to be their own guardians. Women are demanding independent legal standing so that they can access the judicial system on their own to fight for their civil rights and to stop the cycle of exploitation, some women did not mind taking the law into their own hands (Doctorow, 2010).</p>
<p>But most alarming of all is the latest fatwa published on July 16, 2010 on the Saudi owned Al-Arabiya.net website by Sheik Adil Al-Kalbani, the Imam of Haram Al-Sharif, where he proclaims a brand new fatwa after receiving an email from an overseas Saudi male student studying in the ‘West’ (Al-Arabiya Net, 2010). The Saudi student, who is married and living with his wife, claims that he is worried about controlling his desires when he sees ‘Western’ female women wearing seductive semi-naked clothes that arouse him.</p>
<p>He goes on to ask the Sheik if it is OK to marry one of those women in a <strong>‘Misfar’ </strong>marriage, which means marriage based on travel, because he claims that he can’t fight temptations and also accuses his wife of being frigid. The good old Sheik Al-Kalbani posted on his own website the answer. His answer is a fatwa that permits marrying Western women with the intention of divorcing them when the Saudi students are finished with them and without the pre-knowledge of the ‘Western’ women of such plan.</p>
<p>This pathetic kind of fatwa is most degrading and most dishonest and unfair way to treat women and most certainly contradicts Islamic teachings that are based on honesty and justice by giving Saudi overseas students and travelling business men the green light to use women as a disposable container for their desires. The good old Sheik says nothing about the rights of neither the betrayed temporarily married wife nor her children if she happens to become pregnant.</p>
<p>These fatwas are tailored to relieve men from feeling sexually stressed whenever they have an urge but says nothing about women’s’ rights. As expected such fatwas are exclusive to men, no fatwas have been issued to relieve Saudi or Muslim female students studying in the ‘West’ from their sexual stress. It seems that Sheiks assume that women have no natural physical desires.</p>
<p>The same Saudi blogosphere that is swarming with insults to foreign Asian workers, including Muslim ones who happen to come to Saudi Arabia for work, and with tons of warnings that they might have a glimpse of a Saudi woman, is outraged by the mere idea that any foreigner dares to ask for the hand in marriage of a Saudi woman, not even with the good intention of marrying her for ever and not doing what the Sheiks are advising Saudi overseas students to do to women from other nationalities.</p>
<p>This attitude of looking down on women from other countries or faiths is unacceptable in Islam and most dishonest and most damaging for the trust between men and women who are really planning to have long lasting stable marriages. Every Western woman now will start to doubt the intentions of any Muslim man who asks for her hand in marriage because she might think it is a temporary arrangement where the man can use her and as soon as he is finished his holy mission he pulls up his pants and go back to his country leaving her behind with pain, regret and maybe a child to raise on her own. Such issues have to be highlighted by the media to inform women who might be delusional about love and long lasting relationships, so that they can make the decision with full knowledge of the possibilities lurking ahead of them.</p>
<p>Sheik Al-Kalbany&#8217;s fatwa tells us a great deal, such as women’s rights are no more an internal or national concern, and it is no more a case of abusing the rights of Saudi women only, such fatwas are extending their damages overseas and about to create a chaos in other societal systems. It’s about time that human rights campaigns demand of the Saudi state to regulate such ‘buy one get one free’ fatwas because the damage can’t be afforded should the last fatwa became practicable by overseas Saudi students. In November 2007 a group representing 42 UK universities visited Saudi Arabia to promote UK higher education. This kind of activity happens every year.</p>
<p>They should make clear to all the students who are dreaming of the freedoms of the west that ‘Western’ women have rights and dignity and they better shed the mentalities of the take-away fatwas before they stamp their passports, and keep their pants zipped until they return home and marry the way that pleases their societies.</p>
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		<title>Temporary Marriages are Cool, sez Egypt&#8217;s Grand Mufti Ali Gomaa</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 00:03:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[H/T Jawa Report Sheikh Ali Goma&#8217;a (Arabic:علي جمعة ‘Alī Jum‘ah) is the Grand Mufti of Egypt through Dar al-Ifta al-Misriyyahsucceeding Ahmad El-Tayeb. He has been called &#8220;one of the most widely respected jurists in the Sunni Muslim world,&#8221; and described as &#8220;a highly promoted champion of moderate Islam,&#8221; gender equality, and an &#8220;object of hatred among Islamists.&#8221; He specializes in the science of the foundations of [...]]]></description>
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<p>Sheikh <strong>Ali Goma&#8217;a<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ali_Gomaa#cite_note-0"><span> </span></a></strong>(<a class="mw-redirect" title="Arabic" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arabic">Arabic</a>:علي جمعة <span class="Unicode" title="ar ALA transliteration" lang="ar-Latn" xml:lang="ar-Latn"><em>‘Alī Jum‘ah</em></span>) is the <a title="Grand Mufti" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grand_Mufti">Grand Mufti</a> of <a title="Egypt" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Egypt">Egypt</a> through <a title="Dar al-Ifta al-Misriyyah" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dar_al-Ifta_al-Misriyyah">Dar al-Ifta al-Misriyyah</a>succeeding <a class="new" title="Ahmad El-Tayeb (page does not exist)" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Ahmad_El-Tayeb&amp;action=edit&amp;redlink=1">Ahmad El-Tayeb</a>. He has been called <strong>&#8220;one of the most widely respected jurists in the Sunni Muslim world,&#8221;</strong> and described as &#8220;a highly promoted champion of moderate Islam,&#8221; gender equality, and an &#8220;object of hatred among Islamists.&#8221; He specializes in the science of the foundations of Islamic Law, viz. <a title="Usul al-fiqh" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Usul_al-fiqh">Usul al-fiqh</a>. He follows the <a title="Shafi`i" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shafi%60i">Shafi`i</a> school of Islamic jurisprudence.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-26618" title="satan-1htm" src="http://sheikyermami.com/wp-content/uploads/satan-1htm.jpg" alt="satan-1htm" width="331" height="222" />In case you don&#8217;t remember: the Grand Mufti Ali Gomaa is the guy who would blow up the pyramids because they stem from the <a href="pre-Islamic Arabian age of ignorance">pre-Islamic era, the Jahiliya,</a> the pre-Islamic Arabian age of &#8220;ignorance&#8221;.  This is the Grand Mufti from Azhar university who claimed that <strong><a href="http://memri.org/bin/latestnews.cgi?ID=IA36307">even the urine and the excrement of the prophet were pure gold.</a></strong><strong> </strong> Ali Gomaa decreed the killing of Israelis travelling to other countries permissible in Islam,  because Israelis are &#8220;Harbi and the Harbi spreads corruption throughout the face of the earth.&#8221; His <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ali_Gomaa"><strong>WIKI profile is heavily doctored,</strong></a><strong> </strong>if not laughable: Gomaa believes the best antidote to Islamic extremism is &#8220;traditional conception of <a title="Sharia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sharia">sharia</a> law — along with knowledge of Islamic jurisprudence&#8221;</p>
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<li><a href="http://www.jihadwatch.org/dhimmiwatch/archives/011069.php">Ali Gomaa hates sculptures</a> -<a href="http://www.khaleejtimes.com/DisplayArticle.asp?xfile=data/todaysfeatures/2006/April/todaysfeatures_April5.xml&amp;section=todaysfeatures"> Fatwa against statues triggers uproar in Egypt</a></li>
<li><strong>Dhimmi Watch:</strong> Reacting to the now-notorious <a href="http://www.jihadwatch.org/dhimmiwatch/archives/016504.php" target="_blank&quot;">suckling fatwa</a>, Ali Gomaa, the <a href="http://www.khaleejtimes.com/DisplayArticle.asp?xfile=data/todaysfeatures/2006/April/todaysfeatures_April5.xml&amp;section=todaysfeatures" target="_blank&quot;">statue-hatin&#8217;</a>, <a href="http://www.memritv.org/Transcript.asp?P1=1154" target="_blank&quot;">wife-beatin&#8217;</a>,<a href="http://talismangate.blogspot.com/2006/08/new-column-quietly-smiling-update.html" target="_blank&quot;">Hizballah-supportin&#8217;</a> Mufti of Egypt, says we should bring some common sense back to the fatwa-issuing process. </li>
<li>Gomaa himself is the author of a controversial book which claimed that<strong> Prophet <a href="http://www.jihadwatch.org/dhimmiwatch/archives/016703.php">Mohammed’s (PBUH) companions used to drink his urine, considering it a blessed act,</a> </strong>as reported by Al-Masry Al-Youm newspaper.</li>
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<p><em>Gomaa stuck to his position despite criticism, claiming that </em><em><strong>everything which emanated from the Prophet is pure and sacred.</strong></em></p>
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<li><a href="http://www.jihadwatch.org/dhimmiwatch/archives/017513.php">Egypt&#8217;s top cleric denies saying that Muslims could leave Islam without punishment</a></li>
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<p><em>* And now he legitimizes the practice of temporary marriage, which -as some of us know- is only practiced by the Shiite rafidite dogs and apostates, just like the time honored practice of kitman &amp; taqiyya, something a good Sunni Muslim would never do, right? Right?</em></p>
<p><em><a href="http://syedsoutsidethebox.blogspot.com/2009/04/unbelievable-news-from-egypt-legal.html"><span style="font-style: normal;"><strong>Unbelievable News From Egypt : Legal Fornication</strong></span></a><br />
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<p><em><span><span><span style="font-style: normal;">CAIRO</span></span></span><span><span style="font-style: normal;"> (by Ahmed al-Sayed)</span></span></em></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span id="lw_1240737288_8"><span class="yshortcuts"><span><span style="font-style: normal;">Egypt</span></span></span><span class="yshortcuts"><span><span style="font-style: normal;">&#8216;s Grand Mufti</span></span></span></span><span><span style="font-style: normal;"> Ali Gomaa announced that</span><span><span style="font-style: normal;">&#8220;</span><span><span style="font-style: normal;">travelers marriages,</span></span><span style="font-style: normal;">”</span></span><span style="font-style: normal;"> known as nikah mesyar in Arabic, are legitimate </span><span><span style="font-style: normal;">unless banned by the state</span></span><span style="font-style: normal;">. </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">Nikah mesyar is a </span></span><span class="yshortcuts"><span id="lw_1240737288_9"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">Sunni Muslim marriage</span></span></span></span><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">contract in which the woman gives up many of the rights she would be afforded under a traditional marriage contract. </span></span><span><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">(Folks, somehow this sounds like some arms length transaction in the vice trade).</span></span></span><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"><a href="http://syedsoutsidethebox.blogspot.com/2009/04/unbelievable-news-from-egypt-legal.html"> Read it all&gt;&gt;</a></span></span><br />
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<div><span style="font-style: normal;">Related: <a href="http://mypetjawa.mu.nu/archives/197444.php"><strong>Muslim Cleric Calls for Boycott of Starbucks</strong></a></span></div>
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<div><span style="font-style: normal;"><strong>Back to the urine &amp; saliva fatwas:</strong></span></div>
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<li>Many Muslims have written and complained, accused us that we were reporting falsehoods or making it up. Fact is we only report what their clerics are telling us:</li>
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<div><span style="font-style: normal;"><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">The Companions of the Prophet Blessed Themselves with His Urine, Sweat and Saliva <br />
</span></strong><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">In his book Religion and Life &#8211; Modern Everyday Fatwas, Egyptian Mufti Dr. Ali Gum’a wrote that the companions of the Prophet Muhammad would bless themselves by drinking his urine, and described an incident of urine-drinking from a hadith: <strong>“Umm Ayman drank the urine of the Prophet, and the prophet told her: ‘This stomach will not be dragged through the fire of Hell, because it contains something of our Lord the Messenger of Allah…’</strong><br />
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“This blessing,” Al-Gum’a added, “[can also] be done with the honorable saliva, sweat, hair, urine or blood of the Prophet. This is because anyone who knows the love of the Messenger of Allah is not repulsed [by these]; just as a mother is not repulsed by the feces of her son, this is even more so [in the case of] our Lord the Messenger of Allah, whom we love more than our fathers, sons, and wives. Anyone who was or is repulsed by the Messenger of Allah must recant his faith.”</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">Following the ensuing uproar, Gum’a came to the defense of his fatwa, saying: “The entire body of the Prophet, whether exposed or hidden, is pure, and there is nothing in it- including his secretions &#8211; that [can] repulse anyone. His sweat smelled better than perfume. Umm Haram would collect this sweat and distribute it to the people of Al-Madina.”</span></strong></p>
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<li><span style="font-weight: normal;"> <a href="http://sweetness-light.com/archive/uproar-over-fatwa-on-drinking-prophets-urine">Sweetness &amp; Light</a> has lots more&#8230;</span></li>
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		<title>Arab News: Temporary marriages with Indonesian women on rise</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2009 23:40:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[ P.K. Abdul Ghafour &#124; Arab News Nikah al-Mut‘ah  JEDDAH: A large number of Saudis are engaging in temporary marriages with Indonesian women with the intention of divorcing them.  “Such marriages are likely to increase if Islamic scholars fail to give a clear ruling prohibiting them,” said Khaled Al-Arrak, director of Saudi affairs at the Saudi [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p> <a href="http://arabnews.com/?page=1&amp;section=0&amp;article=121653&amp;d=18&amp;m=4&amp;y=2009">P.K. Abdul Ghafour | Arab News</a></p>
<p><em><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nikah_Mut‘ah">Nikah al-Mut‘ah</a></em><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nikah_Mut‘ah"> </a></p>
<blockquote><p>JEDDAH: A large number of Saudis are engaging in temporary marriages with Indonesian women with the intention of divorcing them. </p>
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<p>“Such marriages are likely to increase if Islamic scholars fail to give a clear ruling prohibiting them,” said Khaled Al-Arrak, director of Saudi affairs at the Saudi Embassy in Jakarta.</p>
<p>He said most Saudis were engaged in such marriages without realizing their consequences. “Some poor Indonesians marry off their girls to Saudis hoping it would put an end to their poverty and miseries. If the Council of Senior Islamic Scholars does not ban this type of marriages, things will go out of control,” Al-Arrak warned.</p></blockquote>
<p><em>Continued below&gt;&gt;</em></p>
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<li><strong>France: Saudi Cocaine prince escapes 10-year sentence</strong></li>
<li>(ANSAmed) &#8211; PARIS, DECEMBER 17 &#8211; The Court of Appeal in Paris has confirmed a 10 year prison sentence, as well as a 7 million euro fine, for cocaine trafficking for Prince Nayef Bin Fawaz al Chaalan, who is tied to the Saudi dynasty through marriage, thus ending the legal process souring relations between France and Saudi Arabia. The court also confirmed an arrest warrant for the defendant, who was never present in court and through his lawyers denied all guilt. <a href="http://www.ansamed.info/en/news/ME03.@AM38914.html">( More from ANSAmed)</a></li>
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<blockquote><p><span id="more-25888"></span><em>Temporary marriage continued:</em></p></blockquote>
<p>There are so many offices in Indonesia that facilitate such marriages, Al-Watan Arabic daily said. The marriage takes place in the presence of witnesses and a man posing as the father of the bride.</p>
<p>These women do not know that their marriages would end within a few days and that they would have to bear children of people who would abandon them.</p>
<p>Last year, the Saudi Embassy in Jakarta received 82 calls regarding children of Saudis who had married Indonesian women and then abandoned them. “We have received 18 such calls from abandoned Indonesian wives of Saudis and their children this year so far,” Al-Arrak said.</p>
<p>The Saudi Embassy official said that the cases registered with the embassy accounted for only 20 percent of such marriages that have actually taken place.</p>
<p>Aysha Noor, 22, an Indonesian woman from Sikka Bhumi, 160 km east of Jakarta, said her parents married her to a young Saudi man when she was 16, thinking it would be a blessing for the family and end their poverty.</p>
<p>“We in Indonesia consider people of Makkah and Madinah as blessed ones. The man gave me a dowry of six million Indonesian rupiahs (SR2,024). The dowry helped us to solve some of our economic problems. My family did not know that the man was intending to have a temporary marriage.”</p>
<p>She adds: “After a few days he paid us the remaining amount of three million rupiahs (SR1,011) and left the country.” Noor said she later had a similar marriage with another Saudi before finding a job at a nightclub as a singer and dancer.</p>
<p>There are many women in Indonesia who have similar stories to tell. Some of them find it difficult to look after their children from Saudi husbands. The Saudi Embassy in Jakarta registers such Saudi children and helps them travel to the Kingdom to recognize their fathers but many refuse to accept them.</p>
<p>The embassy also receives visa requests for marriages, particularly for people of special needs and elderly who want to marry Indonesian women. These marriages often fail because the Saudi society treats them as maids and they cannot merge with the society primarily because of language barrier. Such marriages cost between SR5,000 and SR10,000.</p>
<p>S.P. Dharmakirty, consul for information at the Indonesian Consulate in Jeddah, confirmed that temporary marriages involving Saudis were taking place in his country.</p>
<p>“Indonesian authorities have taken appropriate measures to curb this practice,” he told Arab News, adding that some people involved in such illegal marriages have been detained.</p>
<p>The consul also pointed out that the marriage of some Indonesian women with elderly and handicapped Saudis was not legal.</p>
<p>“We face many problems because such marriages are not registered and the women coming from Indonesia use visa for maids to come to the Kingdom,” he said. “Some of them later come to consulate to seek advice,” he added.</p>
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